Miss Hibiscus 1977, Miss Travelodge, Florence Julian, centre, with 1st runner-up, Miss Burns Philp Litiana Duribalavu, right, and second runner-up Miss Seaborne, Kelera Domolailai. Picture: FT File
Variety, it seems, was the spice of life for Litiana Duribalavu. Since leaving school in 1975, she worked as a dental student, business management cadet, air hostess, beauty consultant and then as an educational books co-ordinator for Desai Bookshops, according to a report by The Fiji Times on January 5, 1984.
In between all that, she was also a keen part-time model.
For the coming year she had made a firm resolution to settle down.
“I am going to work hard at my job and hope to save some money,” she said.
Litiana received her primary education at Delainavesi, Ballantine Memorial School then entered Adi Cakobau School.
After completing high school she took up dental therapy course at the CWM Hospital in 1976.
She quickly found that looking into people’s mouths did not interest her greatly. She left after 18 months.
“I wanted to do something totally different and at the time Burns Philp were offering school leavers a business management cadet trainee course, I joined them in 1977.”
The same year Burns Philp sponsored her as the company’s Hibiscus contestant and that year she was crowned Charity Queen.
During her prize winning trip to Australia it was arranged for Litiana to go through a crash course in modelling.
She appeared on a poster that BPs used to launch Revlon’s Charlie cosmetics and perfume in Fiji.
Litiana worked in various departments, selling crockery cosmetics, men’s, women’s and children’s wear and attended Fiji Institute of Technology (FIT) to do a business studies course.
She discontinued her studies when she left BPs in 1979.
“I wanted to travel and see different countries and joined Air Pacific as an air hostess in 1980.”
The glamour of flying did not last long. In six months she said she needed a break from work. Later, she went to work as a beautician for Emmalines Health and Beauty Studio.
Then one day the general manager of Desai Bookshops offered her a job. Litiana said she grabbed the opportunity.
“All along I was looking for something to further my education. I started taking classes at USP in constitutional law and I am determined to make a career at Desai.
“It is a complicated and responsible post. The USP, for example, places large orders for text and reference books or its library and students’ needs. I also look after the demands of FIT, and all primary and secondary schools throughout Fiji and the region.”
The seven female officers who were commissioned in December, 1988. Picture: SUPPLIED
Part 1
The history of a national military force in Fiji goes way back to 1920 before independence. But one thing was certain then, the army was no place for women. Women worked in garment factories, were nurses, teachers, policewomen (the first joined in 1970), but most stayed home.
The concept “a woman’s place is in the kitchen” was widely embraced in Fiji and around the Pacific and women have always been considered as “soft”. This, in my opinion, was probably one of the reasons women were never recruited into the army.
It wasn’t until the incumbent Prime Minister Sitiveni Rabuka became the Commander of the Republic of Fiji Military Forces (RFMF) in 1987 that he allowed the first batch of Fijian women to enter the RFMF in 1988.
Colonel Silipa Raradoka Druavesi Vananalagi was one of 41 woman who decided to break the stigma in 1988 by enlisting in the RFMF.
Out of the 41 women, only seven were commissioned as officers.
Originally from Taci Village, Noco in Rewa, Ms Vananalagi grew up in a family that was predominantly male to parents who also featured in Fiji’s political scene in the mid to late 1900s.
Her father, the late Atunaisa Bani Druavesi, was a banker by profession, but later joined the Soqosoqo ni Vakavulewa ni Taukei (SVT) political party.
Her mother Ema Druavesi was a career lab technician before joining the Fiji Trades Union Congress (FTUC) and later the Fiji Labour Party (FLP) for the 1987 election.
Ms Vananalagi was a student at the prominent Adi Cakobau School (ACS) when the 1987 coup happened.
That, she said, was the first time she “started seeing the green uniform”. “I was still in school in 1987 when the FLP won the elections of ‘87 and then we were told that school was closed because of the coup,” Ms Vananalagi reminisced.
“One of those experiences was mum arrested for a while, and I had to collect stuff from home and take it to her while she was still in CPS (Central Police Station).
“(She) was telling me what to do, what not to do, this is what to bring and all that and being a high school student at the time and facing that crowd of people in uniform, both police and military with guns — it was something challenging, but I had to do what she tasked me to do.
“That was when I started seeing the green uniform.”
When an advertisement appeared in the dailies for women to join the RFMF, Ms Vananalagi applied. That did not go down well with her mother. She had wanted Ms Vananalagi to follow her father’s footsteps in becoming a banker.
“I saw the advertisement on the local newspapers, and I decided to apply and interestingly, my mother was against me applying for the military.
“I was one of the fortunate females that was allowed to attend the women’s WORSBY (Women Officers Regular Selection Board).
“They called it the women’s WORSBY then, where they selected a few women to go through a four-day training program through which they did assessments to see whether you’re fit to be a future officer of the RFMF.
“They see all your calibres in leadership, team bonding and everything including social activities. “On February 5, 1988, we were at the Force Training Group (FTG) for our first day of recruit training.”
Ms Vananalagi said the challenges began as early as day one. “When we started, there was no boundaries between men and women.
“So, there’s this fitness test that we do, depending on the age group, and we women at that time, we had to run the same time with men and it was like running 2.4km in nine minutes.
“And after doing the run, you do the exercises.
“The sit ups, the press ups, and we actually did chin ups during that time and we had to do seven until I think it was in early ‘89 or mid ‘89 when they phased out chin ups for women but we did that during our cadet time and when we graduated.
“We thought we couldn’t do it, but we did it and like we were just challenging men at the same time.”
Ms Vananalagi said there were times when the 41 women were ridiculed for not being able to complete a certain task that men were able to complete. They were also made fun off for being the only women in the army.
This included being called names by army wives who lived in the barracks with their husbands and families.
“To be seen wearing the green uniform and holding guns, you would hear all sorts of comments, it was endless. “But I think the comments that we got during those days, that really built us personally, especially for me and my character, to what I am today.
“It has made me strong; I accept all sorts of criticism, I take on the constructive ones and I just disregard the nonsense one and just move on.”
Another challenge the women faced was the lack of privacy as there were no “women only” facilities because the army at that time, was not structured to include female soldiers. So, when the first batch of women entered the army, they had to use the same facility as the men.
“There was no proper infrastructure in place for women only, like sometimes we just wanted our own privacy and that we didn’t have that. We didn’t get that opportunity.
“If you go into a bathroom and if somebody comes along you had to say “ei au jiko qo i loma” (Hey, I’m inside here) and then you know the boys would know that there’s someone in there.
“Sometimes it was fun when you think of it because we used to rush to see who goes in first.”
But the main challenge that these women faced was the ranking system.
According to Ms Vananalagi, when they entered the force there was a policy in place that limited their promotion.
“When we entered in 1988, we had this policy that said that women could only go up to the rank of captain and once you get married, you have to resign and reapply to the force after you’ve given birth.
“If there’s a vacancy, then they take you back. “Nobody was there to guide us; we didn’t have proper mentors.
“It was lucky if you were in a unit where you will be told this is right and this is wrong.
“Otherwise, you will just go with the flow.
“There were courses, like as an officer you start off with doing Junior Staff Officers (JSO) course and then you go to grade three, grade two, then if you’re fortunate to do joint warfare, well and good.
“Otherwise, you’d do Staff College then to Defence College.
“But for us, we were told that we could only do JSO course, that was it.
“So, I think for us, as a team, we took on the challenge and we really tried to make our way to be recognised in the military, especially since it’s a maledominated organisation. “One wrong thing you do, they really pick it out fast and they will always talk about it every now and then.
Second Lieutenant Merelesita Cakau (left), Waiouru Military Camp Warrant Officer Class Two Glen Savage and Second Lieutenant Grace Qasevakatini after graduating as commissioned officers at Waiouru Military Camp in New Zealand on December 4, 2020.
When we felt like giving up we reminded ourselves of who we were doing it for, for Fiji and our families.
These were sentiments of two women from the Republic of Fiji Military Forces (RFMF) who successfully completed a one-year intense officer training course from Waiouru Military Camp in New Zealand.
Second-Lieutenant Merelisita Cakau and Second Lieutenant Grace Qasevakatini were among 45 cadets from Australia, New Zealand, Singapore, Timor Leste, Malaysia, Tonga and Papua New Guinea who were commissioned last Friday.
The Waiouru Defence Area, in the central North Island, is the premier training ground for the New Zealand Defence Force.
Second-Lieutenant Cakau and Second Lieutenant Qasevakatini add to the growing contingent of qualified and trained women now serving in the RFMF.
The two achieved 100 per cent in their fieldwork in the course.
Second-Lieutenant Cakau, 27, said she only wished she had her parents and close families over in New Zealand to share in her success.
The officer from Baidamudamu, Tavuki, Kadavu said: “At times we really felt like throwing in the towel but I have always reminded myself of who I was doing it for, it was for Fiji and my family.
“We are Fijians and we were sent from Fiji, if we fail we would paint a bad picture for the country.
“That is why we make sure we shine during the course of our cadetship.
“During our break we couldn’t visit our families because of the border restrictions of the pandemic so we had to remain in camp.”
Second-Lieutenant Qasevakatini said her steadfast faith and prayers got her through some of the toughest times in camp.
“Every day before we go out to the field or the forest for training we would always say a little prayer,” she said.
“One day while in the forest we were so worn out so I held Merelesita’s hands from the back and we both encouraged each other until we finally completed our task.
“That was us. We encouraged each other and we prayed for one another.
“For now we are ready to return to Fiji to meet our families and most importantly to serve our country.”
Of Sila Village in Cuvu, Nadroga, she said she was grateful for her family’s prayers and well wishes.
The second woman to be promoted to colonel in the Republic of Fiji Military Forces (RFMF) has her work cut out for her.
Colonel Silipa Raradoka Druavesi Vananalagi was promoted last week by the RFMF Commander, Major-General Ro Jone Kalouniwai.
He said the promotion was long-overdue.
“I think it’s important for the RFMF with how things are happening now in both the security and the defence environment. The experiences have taught us that our female officers, soldiers play a very critical role in understanding the population and in getting out what is quite hard from a male approach,” Major-General Kalouniwai said.
He admitted that gender equality was still a work in progress at the RFMF.
“It is very important for us in terms of having that voice being in a leadership role looking at who to consult or having our strategic planning in place and our decision making process,” he said.
Major-General Kalouniwai was adamant to pursue gender equality during his tenure as Commander.
Colonel Vananalagi was moved and honoured by the trust shown by the RFMF leadership.
She acknowledged God and her family for their continued support.
With 33 years of regular force service, Colonel Vananalagi was well-aware of the challenges women face in the Force.
Her many years of study and service both here and abroad made her well positioned to be an agent of change.
She is currently the Commandant of the RFMF Officers Training School at Vatuwaqa.
Below is part of an interview with Colonel Vananalagi:
What were some challenges you encountered to get to where you are today and how did you overcome them?
Colonel Vananalagi: Recognition and acceptance in a male dominated work place was rampant from the start but you learn to live with it
Infrastructure layout and plans in all military camps and establishments are designed for men only and no consideration for females. Things are changing slowly thanks the Global efforts on gender equality by the United Nations and other multinational organisations and governments.
Fallouts from lack of or inadequate gender policies, education and awareness will always have a bearing on men’s mindset on how they treat and behave towards women. I used to ignore and learn to live with gender issues when I started, but now I feel it my duty to report any abuse or exploitation by males to HQ or to the arm of the institution that deals with such issues. If it is within my court I confront the culprit that is responsible for the offense and speak to him, her or them in their face
What motivates you?
Colonel Vananalagi: My motivation comes from observing the inspirational work of the following ladies:
My Mother – Mrs Ema Druavesi – her mentorship shaped me to be who I am today;
Iron Lady – Margret Thatcher – British Prime Minister – because she never mince her words and will never hold back from speaking out her opinion even amongst her male political counterparts;
Indira Ghandi – First Indian female Prime Minister who was also an Iron Lady;
You’ve had numerous experiences working under various UN outfits. What are some lessons you’ve gained over the years?
Colonel Vananalagi: My UN experience covers the following missions:
UNIFIL HQ, South Lebanon as a staff officer from 2000 – 2001
UNDOF HQ in Golan Heights from 2013 – 2014 as a staff officer,
UNDOF HQ, Syria as Chief Military Personnel Officer 2018 -2019,
UNTSO United Nations Truce Supervision Organization Syria as Chief Observer Group Golan from 2020 – 2021.
You learn to work and communicate with people from all over the world. You learn to understand their cultures and tradition and in the spirit of the UN, no matter how small or how big your country is, we all have the same right to speak and be heard.The UN is the leading platform where gender equality is championed, exercised and monitored. The UN does not discriminate people based on gender, race, religion or ethnicity.
How do you hope to implement these learnings in the RFMF?
Colonel Vananalagi: Fortunately for RFMF, Fiji had ratified UN Resolution 1325 on Gender Equality and thus requirements under the resolution have now become current working policy of the RFMF which are strictly monitored by the UN.
My aim is to train, educate and raise the awareness level of all males in the RFMF as well as females on the UN Resolution 1325 because this is one of the better ways of changing mindsets and improving male attitude towards women.
How important is the role of women officers in the RFMF and in the context of global peacekeeping duties around the world?
Colonel Vananalagi: There are certain fields and position in the RFMF and in global peacekeeping that are suitable for women, but have been performed by men for so long because of the bias and discrimination towards women in the military or women in general.
Now that the UN and most governments have ratified the resolution, more women participation and engagements are witnessed nowadays.
Any advice for young women wishing to pursue a career in the military.
Colonel Vananalagi: My advice to them is have a goal and work towards achieving that goal through:
Mereseini Sokoilagi is the first female naval officer to have completed all formal military and midshipmen training. [Image: Republic of Fiji Navy/ Twitter]
It was a historic day for the Republic of Fiji Navy with the commissioning of their second female naval officer.
Mereseini Sokoilagi is the first female naval officer to have completed all formal military and midshipmen training to the standard required of her to be warranted the rank of Ensign.
Sokoilagi who is from Naloto, Verata in Tailevu attended Adi Cakobau School before graduating from the Fiji National University.
She joined the Royal New Zealand Navy in 2019 for her officer’s training and after two years she attained both her Officer of the Watch Course and later the Bridge Watchkeeping Certificate.
Speaking during the commissioning ceremony, Commander of the Republic of Fiji Military Forces Rear Admiral Viliame Naupoto says Sokoilagi will now be the lone female naval officer in the Fiji Navy as they had just farewelled the late Lieutenant Commander Silipa Kubuabola just a week ago.
Naupoto also reminded Sokoilagi and other Navy officers about the three pillars they should uphold which are loyalty to the institution, courage when faced with adversity and confidence in their good conduct.
Sokoilagi is now posted onboard the patrol boat RFNS Savenaca as an Assistant Navigating Officer.